Relationships & Attachment

Discover yourPeople Pleasing profile

Answer 12 statements and explore 3 dimensions of your experience. Explore approval seeking and the cost of putting your needs aside.

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Get a clearer picture of your patterns, with dimension scores and explanations. Free results · About 3–5 minutes.

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Your people pleasing profile

Example

Dimension preview

64 / 100

Approval pressure

Approval pressure64%
Automatic accommodation38%
Personal cost71%

Example only. Your report is based on your answers. Gender is optional, is not saved, and does not affect scoring.

Start assessmentOriginal self-reflection · Ages 18+

What you’ll explore

Approval pressure
Pressure to keep others pleased with you.
Automatic accommodation
Agreeing or adapting before checking your own preference.
Personal cost
Exhaustion and resentment associated with accommodation.

Before you begin

Over the past two weeks. Respond about your own experience; there are no right answers.

This is an original SymptomScore self-reflection questionnaire, not a validated clinical instrument. Scores summarize your responses; they are not diagnostic cutoffs, probabilities, or population percentiles. Educational references describe the subject, not validation or endorsement of this questionnaire.

Your result saves to your profile on this browser. Answers stay in this tab while you complete the test and are removed from the draft when you finish. No account or cross-device sync is available.

For a repeat check-in, consider waiting 14 days. This is a reflection cadence, not a clinically validated retest interval.

How scoring works

Each response is scored from 0 to 4. Reverse-worded items are scored in the opposite direction. Dimension scores show the percentage of available response points. A score of 75 means three quarters of the response points, not a 75% chance of a condition.